Control Issues:
Control is an illusion. We can only control ourselves, not others, nor the world around us. This is a hard truth to accept, but when we seek to control things beyond ourselves, we often end up feeling frustrated, disappointed and ultimately block what is meant for us.
Let everything else go as there is no control beyond yourself! We can only control our thoughts, feelings and actions. We can choose whether to respond, react or accept, we can choose whether to be happy or sad.
We have a choice how to be every day. How we are, and how we operate is a positive use of personal control, it's always a personal choice.
When we seek to inflict control upon others, we curtail or siphon their life force energy through our conditional behaviour.
Control is manipulation; it repels others and damages you.
Stop seeking to control others. Letting go of control isn't easy, but it isn't your place to step in, take charge, or tell others what to do. People have to learn for themselves — it is arrogant to assume you know what is best for others!
If you practice detachment, you can relax into the flow of life, let go of control and be more present and open up to pure potential. Accepting that we can only control ourselves is liberating. When we let go of the need to control or detach, we can bring balance and flow into our lives and open up to what is meant for us.
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